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SO MAD AT MY KID RIGHT NOW!

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Oh, the joys of chicken-keeping and parenting! It’s a cluck-tastic adventure filled with love, laughter, and the occasional feather-ruffling challenge. Today, I’m beyond mad at my (adult) son for consistently missing his sole chicken chore—locking the hens up at sundown. While he claims he can’t see the setting sun due to his covered windows, my definition of “dark” clearly differs from his. Tonight, seven of my three-month-old hens are braving the woods, rain, and coyotes because he decided to wait until after 9 PM to check on them. Thankfully, a midnight bathroom trip led me to find them roosting safely in a tree! Still, my son is definitely in for a serious talk in the morning.

In the whimsical world of chicken-keeping, we often find ourselves entangled in a delightful yet maddening dance with our feathered friends. A recent post titled "SO MAD AT MY KID RIGHT NOW!" captures this beautifully as a frustrated parent vents about their adult son’s chronic delays in securing the chickens at sundown. This story resonates with many of us who juggle the responsibilities of caring for our flocks while managing family dynamics. The stakes, however, are high; as the author points out, waiting too long can lead to misadventures in the form of lost hens, as seen in their experience of seven young chickens bedding down in the woods with the lurking threat of coyotes. This scenario reflects a common fear among chicken owners, akin to the sentiments expressed in our article, Abandoned Chickens and my worst nightmare for them, where the worst-case scenarios often play out in our minds.

The humor in the situation is palpable, especially when the parent laments the differences in definitions of “dark” with their son and highlights how he always manages to find the chickens eventually. This blend of frustration, love, and a sprinkle of madness is what keeps us connected to our own experiences. Many of us can relate to the struggles of managing family and farm life, where chores can sometimes become a battleground of wills. The author’s plea for support while simultaneously reminding the community to remember their love for their children is a poignant reminder of the complexity of these relationships. It’s a dance between discipline and affection that many of us navigate daily. Furthermore, this echoes the sentiment in another article, Down to three bird, where a moment of inattention leads to a significant loss, stirring the heartstrings of chicken lovers everywhere.

The happy twist in this tale—finding the hens roosting in a tree at 3 a.m.—adds a layer of relief and joy to the story. It serves as a reminder that even in our most frantic moments, moments of serendipity can occur. However, the underlying issue remains: how do we effectively communicate these responsibilities? This is especially important when our “chicken chores” involve not just the well-being of our birds but also the dynamics of family relationships. The author’s decision to have a “come-to-Jesus” conversation with their son the next morning signals the necessity of addressing these ongoing issues without letting frustration overshadow the bond between parent and child.

As we reflect on this experience, it raises essential questions about the balance of responsibility, humor, and vulnerability in our lives as chicken keepers. How can we cultivate a more cooperative environment in our chicken-keeping households? And as we prepare for future adventures (and misadventures) with our feathered friends, let’s remember that every ruffled feather can lead to a tale worth sharing. The mix of laughter and lessons learned through these experiences not only enriches our lives but also strengthens our community ties. So let’s keep clucking, and may our chicken journeys be filled with egg-citing discoveries and feathered friendships!

My (adult) son's only chicken chore is to make sure they get locked up for the night AT sundown. He and I have been going round and round for months because he always waits until well after sundown to go secure them.

'His windows are covered so he doesn't know when the sun is down'

'My definition of dark and his are different.'

'He always gets them eventually.'

Well tonight 7 of my three month old hens are spending the night in the woods, in the rain, with the coyotes, because he waited until after 9 to go try and find them. They've already bedded down somewhere in the woods and we can't find them at all.

I am so beyond mad right now. I just needed to vent. Everyone cross your fingers for me that I still have birds in the morning.

UPDATE: They've been found! I got up to pee at 3am and found them roosting in a tree! The kid is still in trouble and will be having a come-to-Jesus conversation in the morning.

Also, I appreciate the support, but some of y'all need to remember that no matter how mad I am at him, he's still my kid. Be angry, but be nice.

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