There's a special kind of heartbreak that comes when your hand-raised baby rooster turns into a tiny feathered tyrant. The OP's story is practically a rite of passage for first-time chicken keepers: six months of sweet bonding, dried worm bribes, and then one day, bam, you've got a pair of spurs aimed at your calves and a sudden understanding of why the term "fowl play" exists. We've all been there, or we've at least watched a hen give us the side-eye and known exactly what she's thinking. It's the same energy as when our Six fluffy chicks have hatched—egg-cellent news from our feathered friends! turn from adorable puffballs into opinionated teenagers, except with more lunging and less peeping.
So, what's the actual answer to "is my roo aggressive or just being a roo?" For us, the line isn't about whether he's posturing or even giving you a warning peck. That's just rooster 101, and it's part of the "rooberty" the OP mentions. Real aggression, in our book, is when the warning is over and the intent to hurt you becomes the primary goal. The hackles going up when you reach for him? That's a conversation. The drive-by attack on the back of your legs when you're not looking? That's him telling you who's boss, and in rooster world, that's a challenge you can't ignore. The fact that he's also running up on the dogs and cats who are ignoring him tells us he's not scared; he's testing his boundaries to see who blinks first. He's a teenager trying on a tough-guy persona, and right now, you're the audience.
Here's our honest take: you don't have to cull him, and you don't have to rehome him, but you do have to retrain him. The good news is that at six months old, he's still a malleable little maniac. He's not "bad," he's just got a job he wasn't hired for. You need to become the alpha hen, and that means no more turning your back on him. When he runs at you, don't run away. Stand your ground, pick him up, and carry him around under your arm like a football for a few minutes. It sounds silly, but it's humiliating for him, and it's the clearest way to say, "I am the boss of you, buddy." This isn't about being mean; it's about establishing that you're not a chicken. It's the same principle as our Chickens Got Her Good! A Backyard Poultry Adventure, where the lesson was that these birds will absolutely take advantage of you if you let them, except here, the lesson is cheaper than a trip to urgent care.
The real question is whether this is a phase or a personality trait, and the only way to find out is to watch the direction of his attacks. A rooster who charges you face-on, with his neck feathers out, is usually just being dramatic. A rooster who waits until you're distracted and then goes for the back of your legs has learned that sneak attacks work. That's the behavior you want to nip in the bud right now, because it's the difference between a bird you can live with and one that will eventually hurt a guest or a kid. We'd tell this person to keep a pair of thick boots by the coop door and to never, ever let him get away with the sneak attack. Squat down, meet his eye level, and show him you're not afraid to be an inconvenient, immovable object. He's testing you, but you're in charge of the test. And if you stick with it, you might just end up with a bird who still struts his stuff, but knows better than to mess with the hand that feeds him. Watch his eyes, not his spurs. That's where the truth lives.