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Tendie Led the Charge: Chicken Trust Finally Egg-citingly Working

What an egg-citing moment in the chicken coop!

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Tendie Led the Charge: Chicken Trust Finally Egg-citingly Working
For the first time since having them - my chickens ran over to me!

Last night, a Reddit user named TonkaJahary stepped into their yard, said hello, and watched their chickens run toward them for the first time. Not away. Toward. Tendie led the charge, followed by Marco, with Vanillope hanging back like a cautious third wheel. And if that doesn't make you want to cluck with joy, I don't know what will. For anyone who has ever stood in a chicken coop feeling like a clumsy giant being sized up by a flock of tiny, judgmental dinosaurs, this is the moment we all dream about. It's egg-citing because it's proof that patience actually pays off, and that a little vulnerability on our part can turn fowl play into feathered friendship.

This isn't just a feel-good story. It's a practical lesson wrapped in feathers. The advice TonkaJahary followed, slow approaches, consistent routines, letting the bravest bird set the example, worked exactly as it should. Tendie didn't need a pep talk or a treat bag. She just needed to trust that the giant two-legged creature wasn't going to eat her, chase her, or steal her favorite dust-bathing spot. For readers who are still in the "they run away screaming" phase, take note: you don't have to be a chicken whisperer. You just have to show up, be boring, and let one brave chicken lead the way. The rest will follow, even if Vanillope takes her sweet time.

What would we tell a reader who asked us about this? Simple. Stop trying to be the expert. You don't need a degree in poultry psychology. You need to be the person who walks out at the same time, says the same silly phrase, and waits. If one chicken eventually breaks ranks and trots over, congratulations, you have your Tendie. Let her do the recruiting. Your job is to stay predictable and not make any sudden movements. And when it finally happens, when they run *to* you instead of *from* you, resist the urge to whoop with joy and scare them off again. Breathe. Smile. Maybe whisper, "You're doing great, Tendie."

This works because it's not about tricks or treats or intimidation. It's about showing up as your awkward, hopeful self and letting a chicken named Tendie show you how trust really happens. One step at a time, one cluck at a time, one terrifyingly brave little hen leading the way. Go be your flock's boring friend. They'll thank you by running toward you, and that's a kind of cluck-tastic victory no expert can manufacture.

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I've been following the advice from my previous thread, about getting my chickens to warm up to me! And it's working. For the the first time, last night I walked out and said hello and they ran to the closest corner to me!

And like someone had mentioned - there's always one braver! Tendra (Tendie for short) ran over first, followed by Marco, with Vanillope hanging back.

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